Sunday, September 6, 2009

I'm baaa-aack!!

Whew! What a glorious 2 weeks it has been! I feel like I have so much to share that I don't know where to start! Hawaii was amazing and we have TONS of pictures from the Honeymoon! But before I share any pictures or vendor reviews there are some thoughts I want to share for some of you future brides-to-be to help with your sanity!!


While I did think my day was perfect and I couldn't have hoped for a more beautiful and fun way to celebrate our union, there are some things I would do differently:

1. Don't schedule too much on your big day. I know you think you are going to have time and you want to please everybody but seriously, plan things at a minimum. Example: I had a friend of M's family plan to throw my Bridesmaid Brunch on the day of our wedding. I felt I was going to be rushed but I didn't want to cancel on her so I said it was fine. And it was a lot of fun, we drank mimosas, laughed, and relaxed, but it made the rest of the day VERY TIGHTLY scheduled which led to me not getting to do everything I wanted to.


All the girls at the Bridesmaid Brunch: Steph at New Beginnings, Linds, Anna, me, Sarah (MOH), Virginia (MOH), and Caitlin of Think Happy Thoughts (my proxy)


Which leads to...

2. Give your photographer a list of photos you want. Because I was so rushed getting our hair done, my makeup done, etc, it completely distracted me and I totally forgot to give Shea a list of photos that I wanted to make sure were taken. So while she did amazing I'm sure with just about everything, we didn't get any pictures of just our rings. I'm so disappointed with myself I don't know what to do, but that's life. Nothing I can do about it now. We also didn't get to take all the photos before the ceremony like I wanted to so we spent more time than I wanted getting to the reception to PAR-TAY!

3. DO NOT serve red wine at your wedding if you plan on dancing! It's a great thing that I'm pretty laid back because my dress got SOAKED in Merlot on the bottom. My aunt and grandmother were wigging out on me but I just wanted to party!! I wish I would have thought about it and avoided even the chance of it happening but once again, now I just have to hope that the cleaners can remove it.

4. Hire professionals that will take care of you. I had some phenominal vendors that I can't wait to share with you and I hope it helps in making some of your decisions for the future. They set up and packed up everything where I had NO worries. I will say that I wish I had more of a dedicated wedding coordinator. I planned this whole thing by myself but M's mom's friend was a wedding planner and she offered to do the rehearsal and day off at no charge which I was super excited about. It kept me from having to spend extra money on a planner and I had someone to tell me how to do things...but once the reception hit she turned into a guest. So because I didn't really have somebody on my side I have no idea where my bouquet went, my cake topper, and various other random things. So please, please, please hire a planner, even if it's just day-of.

5. Don't let planning the perfect wedding shadow the fact that you are marrying the man of your dreams. This is something I can say I actually did and it was amazing. I wasn't a ball of nerves at all, I wasn't worried that something was going to be wrong and ruin my day. And when it was over, I hadn't built it up so much in my mind that I was disappointed that it was over. Yes I had an amazing day and I would have that party every single day if I could, but it was purely because we were celebrating something so great and all my family and friends were right there with me! But I don't miss planning my wedding and I'm happy to be married to my man!!!



So I know this post was boring and without many pictures, BUT I thought it was really important to share my small tidbits of info. If I can just help ONE person I'll be happy!! But next up....VENDOR RECAPS AND HONEYMOON!!!! WOOOO HOOO!!

5 comments:

Little Miss Southern said...

Awww I am so excited for you! These are great points to remember!

Congrats girl! You look amazing!

Brittany Ann said...

Yay! Congrats congrats!

The Thirty-Something Bride said...

Hey, Congrats! I think more of this kind of advice is awesome! I need to hear more, that's for sure!

Nicole-Lynn said...

Aw so exciting. You looked beautiful. Thanks for all the tips!

prashant said...

am so excited for you! These are great points to remember!
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